The matters that trigger these confrontations are
often mundane and long established. They include the use of shared laneways,
particularly where carers temporarily park in order to deliver food, the
cooking of lamb on the spit on significant family days, the parking of
vehicles, the placement of nets on fruit trees, the tending of vegetable
gardens and grapevines, the maintenance of fences, and the persistence of
habits formed over a lifetime. In some cases, abuse has been delivered directly
on the footpath, where elderly residents walking slowly have been told to “move
out of the way” or “go back where they came from.” In others, elderly women
speaking Greek quietly to one another outside cafés or shops have been ordered
to “speak English,” accused of rudeness, and subjected to escalating verbal
hostility.
Harassment has also occurred in everyday
commercial and public settings. These experiences are not universal and are
reported by some, but not all, elderly Greek residents. Some elderly Greeks
describe being intimidated in supermarkets while struggling with self-checkout
systems, subjected to audible remarks about “old migrants clogging things up,”
and publicly hurried or mocked. On public transport, elderly men speaking Greek
on their phones have been told to keep quiet or to “speak English in Australia,”
with their attempts to explain met with ridicule rather than restraint. In
gentrified shopping strips, elderly Greeks sitting outside long-established
businesses report hostile stares, comments about “lingering” or “taking up
space,” and a palpable sense that their presence is no longer welcome.
Domestic life has not been spared. Elderly couples
tending front gardens have been confronted by neighbours objecting to vegetable
beds and vines as “unsightly” or “not appropriate for the neighbourhood,”
language frequently accompanied by disparaging remarks about “old European
habits” and threats to report them to council. Modest name-day gatherings have
prompted noise complaints framed as denunciations of “foreign music” and
insinuations that “these people are always partying,” even where such gatherings
conclude early and quietly. In one particularly stark instance, an elderly
resident was told directly that if they did not like the abuse they were
receiving, they should move out.
The targeting, again not widespread but
increasing, and not always overtly motivated by ethnicity alone, extends beyond
behaviour and reaches identity itself. Elderly Greeks wearing visible Orthodox
crosses have been subjected to aggressive commentary about “backward religion”
and “old-world superstition,” framed as progressive critique yet delivered
personally and with evident contempt. Others recount being mocked for their
accents when asking for directions or assistance, spoken to in exaggerated, infantilising
English, or openly mimicked in public spaces.
For people in advanced age, often living alone or
with similarly aged spouses, such encounters carry a weight far beyond the
immediate exchange. Many are post-war migrants with limited English and little
familiarity with compliance mechanisms, council processes, or legal avenues of
redress. When confronted by younger residents who are confident, articulate,
and comfortable invoking authority, the psychological impact is immediate and
enduring. Fear becomes embedded in daily routine. Anxiety shapes behaviour.
Doors go unanswered. Shared spaces are avoided. Ordinary activities are
curtailed in order to minimise exposure. The home, once a place of stability,
becomes a site of apprehension.
As these incidents recur and remain unchallenged,
they begin to settle into the public environment as acceptable conduct.
Behaviour that would once have been recognised as harassment becomes normalised
through repetition. Older non-Anglo residents come to be regarded as
impediments to be managed rather than neighbours to be accommodated. Their age,
customs, and vulnerability are recast as inconveniences within a rapidly
changing suburb. This process is quiet, cumulative, and deeply corrosive. The
significance of these incidents lies not in their universality, but in their
repetition, their apparent growth, and their impact on a cohort particularly
vulnerable due to age, language barriers, and social isolation.
These encounters also unfold within a broader
process of spatial reordering. As Merri-bek undergoes rapid gentrification,
longstanding residents find themselves reframed as anomalies within streets
they once stabilised. Cultural practices that were previously unremarkable
become markers of difference. Pressure is applied through informal means,
persistent confrontation, and symbolic exclusion. The effect is a form of
displacement that operates without eviction notices or redevelopment plans,
relying instead on discomfort and attrition to render older residents invisible
within neighbourhoods now marketed as modern, efficient, and culturally
streamlined.
This pattern reflects a deeper and well-documented
condition of migrant life in settler societies. As George Vassilacopoulos and
Toula Nicolacopoulou have observed in their groundbreaking analysis Foreigner
to Citizen: Greek Migrants and Social Change in White Australia 1897–2000,
migrants are rarely granted full belonging. Even after decades of residence,
labour, and civic contribution, they continue to be positioned as perpetual
outsiders, tolerated only while they remain quiet, compliant, and unobtrusive.
As migrants age, linger in public space, persist in speaking their language,
tending their gardens, or occupying neighbourhoods that have since been
reclassified as desirable, their presence is increasingly recoded as
problematic. Former contributors are reframed as residual and subversive
elements. Ordinary practices come to be read as disorder. Within this
framework, harassment functions as a disciplinary mechanism through which space
is symbolically reclaimed and older migrant bodies are reminded that their
belonging has always been conditional. This analysis does not imply that
harassment is consciously or uniformly directed at Greeks as Greeks, but that
longstanding migrant presence can, under conditions of rapid social change,
become newly problematised.
All of this unfolds within a municipality that
loudly proclaims its progressive and multicultural credentials. At the level of
policy, values are articulated, strategies adopted, and celebratory events
promoted. At ground level, however, elderly Greeks report intimidation,
exclusion, and sustained pressure in the very neighbourhoods they helped
develop through years of labour and restraint. Multiculturalism, when confined
to formal declarations and procedural commitments, offers limited protection
against cumulative, low-level coercion. Where harm occurs through repetition
rather than spectacle, institutional responses often fail to activate. The
disjunction between public language and private experience continues to widen.
The persistence of this behaviour is reinforced by
regulatory silence. Harassment of this kind rarely triggers immediate
consequences. Municipal services appear remote, police involvement feels
disproportionate, and legal remedies are perceived as inaccessible. In this
absence of visible intervention, intimidation is permitted to continue,
sustained by the knowledge that it is unlikely to be challenged in any
meaningful or timely way.
Equally concerning is the limited capacity of some
of our own community institutions, particularly those that most prominently
display aspirations to leadership and representation, to intervene where
pressure is actually applied. Public narratives of success, cohesion, and
resilience circulate easily through speeches, media releases, and commemorative
events, reinforcing a sense of collective achievement. At street level, where
elderly people are dealing with intimidation, repeated confrontation, and the
steady erosion of security within their own homes, those narratives translate
into little practical assistance. There is often no mechanism for rapid
response, no visible advocacy with councils or authorities, and no sustained
presence capable of restraining abuse or shifting behaviour. The result is that
elderly individuals are left to manage complex and distressing situations
alone, without language, without confidence, and without protection, absorbing
the psychological toll privately while institutional authority remains largely
symbolic.
It is precisely because these incidents are
neither universal nor inevitable that they warrant early attention and measured
response. Steps are now being taken to act at a grassroots level.
Mechanisms are being developed to identify incidents, record them
systematically, document patterns of behaviour, and pursue appropriate avenues
of redress. Elderly members of our community will not be left to absorb this
pressure alone, with members of the community scrambling at the grassroots to
advocate on their behalf. Every effort must and will be made to ensure that our
elderly are treated with dignity and that no one is permitted to push them around.
DEAN KALIMNIOU
kalymnios@hotmail.com
First published in NKEE on Friday 19 December
2025